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Kink Info For Newbies

If you are interested in trying any kink for the first time or have just dipped your toes in but are still very new, you may like to read on.

Kink is “an umbrella term used to describe a wide range of sexual activities that are considered to be unconventional or unorthodox.”

Kink can refer to an endless number of sexual proclivities that veer from vanilla sex.  The most popular variety of kink is probably BDSM, which stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism.

BDSM is playtime with power dynamics. There are generally two “roles” that people play in BDSM scenarios: Dominants (or “doms,” or “dommes”) enjoy giving orders and being in charge. (A subcategory of domination is practiced by people who enjoy inflicting consensual, controlled doses of pain—this is called sadism.) Submissives (or “subs”) enjoy being dominated, restrained, or otherwise controlled (again, consensually) by someone else. (When pain is involved, the submissive’s part  is called masochism.)

Being dominant or submissive is an expression of your sexuality, and it doesn’t have to have anything to do with the rest of your non-sex life. People who are submissive are not pushovers, and people who are dominant are not scary psychopaths. In fact, some people like going back and forth between domination and submission; they’re known as “switches,” or “versatile.” Does the thought of telling someone what to do turn you on? Or have you ever wondered what it would feel like to be tied up while someone does delicious things to your body? This is where your private, personal sexuality comes into play—only you can determine how much power you are willing to wield or relinquish. As with a lot of sexual activity, experimentation is key, but with kink it is essential to experiment after boundaries are discussed.

I provide Domme services where you are in the Subs role.

My Kink bookings can be enjoyed with or without actual sex being involved.

Specifically what I provide as Mistress Lush, a list of kinks is below;

3sums

Anal toying

Ball Busting (light)

Bondage

CBT

Collar (& lead)

Edging

Face sitting

Filming

Financial Domination

Foot fetish 

Golden Shower

Human Furniture

Humiliation

Impact Play (spanking, paddles, whips, crops)

Milking

Mummification*

Orgasm Denial/control

Pet play (eg puppy)

Ruined Orgasm

Scat

Scratching / Biting

Sensory play (blindfold, wax, food, temperature, texture, wartenberg wheel, e-stim toy)

Smothering (with ass or pussy - a form of breath control)

Sissfication

Sploshing

Strap on

Toy show / masturbation

Worship (foot, ass, boot)

If you are unsure of a definition, please utilise google especially urban dictionary.

Kinks and fetishes I do not provide or deal with are as follows;

Beating

Blood

Fisting

Needles

Public

Spitting

Stretching

Vomit

Anything to cause breakage of skin or actual injury

The type of sessions provided by Mistress Lush are for beginners to intermediate and are on the lighter side. Aftercare and safewords are generally not wanted/required by my clients, however the use of safe words are welcome, and if you feel you may require aftercare please discuss at time of enquiry/booking.


If your interest is not listed anywhere above, please do contact me with detail to enquire.